happily ever after

I am with a wonderful man. I love him with all my heart. We’ve had our moments when we have disagreed on important issues and even not so important issues. Since the baby was born, and even during pregnancy, I think I have cried more just because of hormones. In the early hours of the morning while feeding the baby, I think I decided that getting upset so much was no good. In the end, I know he loves me and I know he’ll be there for me. It won’t always be perfect. Love is finding a person that you can just be with. For better or for worse.

Gramma says that when you love a man with all your heart in spite of his imperfections (and he loves you in spite of yours), and stand behind him even when you know he’s wrong. Then that is the man that you can stand by for life.

If I had to choose between this life and the fairy tale, I’d have to say I’m already happy and when a girl is in love as much as I, she already has a happily ever after.

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