I sat on the porch overlooking a beautiful mountain lake on a summer day, enjoying a glass of wine with my Mom. Older than me, mother of four, experienced and wise. “Get yourself some girl friends,” she advised, swirling the wine in her glass. “You are going to need girlfriends. Go places with them, do things with them.” What a funny piece of advice, I thought. Hadn’t I just gotten married? Hadn’t I just joined the couple-world? I was a married woman, for goodness sake, not a young girl who needed girlfriends. But I listened to my Mom and I got back in touch with my old girlfriends of years long gone. As the years tumbled by, one after another, gradually I came to understand that Mom knew what she was talking about.
Here is what I know about them:
Girlfriends bring casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you are sick.
Girlfriends keep your children and keep your secrets.
Girlfriends give advice when you ask for it.Sometimes you take it,
sometimes you don’t.
Girlfriends don’t always tell you that you’re right, but they’re usually
Girlfriends still love you, even when they don’t agree with your
Girlfriends might send you a birthday card, but they might not. It does
not matter in the least.
Girlfriends laugh with you, and you don’t need canned jokes to start
Girlfriends pull you out of jams.
Girlfriends don’t keep a calendar that lets them know who hosted the
Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get
married or have a baby, in whichever order that comes!
And girlfriends are there for you, in an instant and truly, when the
hard times come.
Girlfriends listen when you lose a job or a husband.
Girlfriends listen when your children break your heart.
Girlfriends listen when your parent’s minds and bodies fail.
My girlfriends bless my life.
Once we were young, with no idea of the incredible joys or the
incredible sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would
need each other.
Pass this on to your girlfriends and even to women you are not quite
friends with, you never know, someday they may end up being a dear old
friend. Let them all know how much you appreciate them.